24 de Agosto 2009
After 46 hours of travel…six airports, five flights, and three countries later I am back in the United States. Other than the marathon length of the trip, this all happened without much fanfare. Sleeping overnight in the JFK international arrivals hall food court was classy, par usual, but I realized that it was actually more comfortable than a few of my nights this summer. There are no mosquitoes in Terminal 4.
From the moment I boarded my second flight (from Madrid to Boston) I knew that I was definitely headed back to a reality I hadn’t really prepared myself for. A man in the row in front of me on the plane proceeded to make a whining scene about every minor inconvenience that came his way—from crying babies to the time he had to wait for his beverage to the ultimate travesty: the taste of his meal. “Flight attendant? I’m not a cat. Why are you serving me cat food? This is disgusting; take it away,” he sassed about ten times and then demanded the name of the food service CEO so that he could write him or her an angry letter. Yes, I was definitely on my way back to the land of the free and the home of the obnoxious. Patience.
I know the inevitable faces me now: trying to sum up my “experience” in a way that’s quickly and easily relatable to those who will ask. There is so much that I have to say that I haven’t even found a way to write about in this blog which has been my open book to the world for two months; trying to make sense of everything is going to be a continued struggle. The task reminds me of a quote from Green Hills of Africa, this blog’s namesake: “I had no wish to share this life with anyone who was not there, only to live it, being completely happy and quite tired.” It seems a little selfish, almost, but I think I really do understand the sentiment.
Most of my pre-EG worries consisted of basic survival fears about things like the language, accommodations, food, insects, and other such insignificant nuances that traditionally define adjusting to life in a developing country as a struggle. Though, admittedly, life was difficult at times because of these things, their relevance faded away quickly as the weeks passed. I am convinced that with a flexible mind and the willingness to cede some control, you can adapt to anything. There is no such thing as where you belong; there is only where you are.
So here we are, at the end of the summer. A wandering journey of navigating human rights, fundamental issues in development, teaching English by chance, dozens of interviews with strangers-turned-friends, daily misadventures, hundreds of military checkpoints, and any and everything else has come to its conclusion. My time in Equatorial Guinea was not in the least bit what I had expected it to be, but it was more valuable than I will ever be able to describe effectively with words. Perhaps with some time and distance I will be able to distill things into something a little more coherent. Patience.
I honestly appreciate those who followed this blog. Knowing that I had friends and family keeping tabs on me from across the world did a lot to make me feel less isolated. I know that it hasn’t exactly been short and sweet, but for those of you who made it to the end with me, I hope that you found it worthwhile; I sure did. From this point on, I will probably go back and correct a few things and add some more pictures and post more information about my final report and basic housekeeping stuff like that. So, check back over the next couple of weeks or so to get the full picture, if you’re interested. I also hope to find some music and videos on the internet with some of my new favorite songs that I found in EG and now hope to popularize here in the states; trust me, you’ll love them.
Nine months ago I had never even heard of Equatorial Guinea, and now it is a place that has become a major part of me. It’s the nation I’ve spent the most time in outside of my own. It’s not like a vacation where one can enjoy an exotic locale for a bit and then jet off back to his life. EG will be with me permanently, and I’m certain I will return. Its future is precarious, but I refuse to not be a part of it.
“I would come back to Africa but not to make a living from it…But I would come back to where it pleased me to live; to really live. Not just let my life pass. Our people went to America because that was the place to go then. It had been a good country and we had made a bloody mess of it and I would go, now, somewhere else and as we had always had the right to go somewhere else and as we had always gone.” (Ernest Hemingway)